Our Favorite “Toys” of 2021

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Navigating the world of adult toys can be very overwhelming, but luckily we narrowed things down to two of the top companies making the best products.

For Men: Lovense Max 2

The Lovense Max 2 builds upon its predecessor by featuring 360-degree contractions, an upgraded skin-like sleeve, improved performance, and an extended vibrator all housed in a revamped exterior.

This toy treated me well during solo play, but this toy excels when it comes to its connectivity features and the potential to involve a player 2 in the game.

Not only was this the feature that caught my attention most, but it was the one that eventually brought me to my knees. The Lovense Max 2 has deep, strong contractions that feel amazing.

Additionally, there’s an adjustable vent at the end of the device which allows you to calibrate how intense the suction becomes, making your penis feel as though it’s being swallowed by this sex toy.

With simple stroking motions, the device mimics the sensation of real-life.

The Lovense Max 2 has had careful attention devoted to the sleeve. The material is 100% hypoallergenic and has an extremely soft, pliable, and stretchy feel to it, similar to that of other high-end male masturbators.

Max 2 comes with a clear sleeve containing many bumps and nodules, but if that’s not your thing, Lovense offers a flesh-colored vagina sleeve.

Lovense has managed to add a lot of value to the Max 2. Features aren’t simply thrown in for the sake of looking good on paper. Instead, the details have been carefully mulled over, resulting in a truly rousing teledildonic product.

The Max 2 delivers more than just a squishy orifice to enjoy, it’s embedded with tech to take your orgasm to the next level.

Depending on your tolerance, you may find the Lovense Max 2 to be stimulating enough without needing guidance, making this a potentially handsfree device.

No doubt this is an expensive toy, but If you’re in the market for a high-end male masturbator, the Lovense Max 2 is worthy of your consideration.

Check out the Lovense Max 2

Men’s Runner-up: Fleshlight

So what actually is a Fleshlight? Fleshlight consists of a rigid plastic case and a soft inner sleeve that is meant to imitate the “real flesh”. The case consists of the base, top cap (to close the Fleshlight when not in use) and end cap (the regulate the suction power). The sleeve is where the magic happens and obviously is the most important part of the Fleshlight.

There are tons of different textures and styles ranging from simple designs like just a smooth tube to some weird “parallel universe” textures like Stoya Destroya. Not only sleeves differ in textures but in tightness as well so you should consider this when purchasing (and take the size of your penis into consideration).

The sleeve is the most important part of any fleshlight. That’s why everyone (including us) will tell you to “choose wisely” and blah blah blah. But the truth is that most likely you’ll want to try more textures anyway. Moreover, you can buy a sleeve separately (without a case) and save significant bucks.

So don’t worry too much about picking your first Fleshlight and just go for whatever tickles your imagination the most or grabbed your attention or which pornstar do you like the most (that’s what I did)!

Also, in some sleeves, you won’t be able to reach the most “exciting” parts of the sleeve if you’re shorter than 6”. So always remember to check the picture of inner texture with measurements on the official website.

Overall, I have no doubts why fleshlight became the most sold male sex toy. For the price asked, it overdelivers a hundred times. And owning at least one shouldn’t be something to be ashamed of. As you shouldn’t feel guilty masturbating if you don’t have a partner (and it’s ok even if you have one), you shouldn’t feel bad using a pocket pussy. So go for it and have fun!

Check out the Fleshlight

For the ladies: Lovense Lush 3

The Lush 3 is the 2021-edition of the previous best-selling remote-controlled vibrators, Lush and Lush 2. Lovense Lush 3 guarantees that it’s everything we loved about the earlier versions and better.

The first thing you’ll notice about Lovense Lush 3 is that it’s hot pink, and the vibrator itself is sort of egg-shaped with a tail. The feel of it is very soft and smooth, thanks to the silicone coating, which also makes it waterproof.

The vibrating egg is rather big, and the motor offers some potent vibrations, but the size may be a bit much for some people. If you are petite, this toy might unfortunately not be for you.

The tail is fixed – but that doesn’t mean it’s not a comfortable fit. Once you insert the egg, you’ll find that the toy hugs your body and provides you with stimulation on your g-spot, but is still very flexible. The vibrator’s flexibility ensures that it will adjust to your body type and sit comfortably. I have to admit that the tail isn’t the sexiest design, but what are you going to do? It’s worth it for the stable Bluetooth connection.

Nobody likes a vibrator dying in the middle of the fun. Therefore, the importance of the battery life is crucial to the performance of a vibrator, which is definitely something Lovense is doing well with Lush 3. The vibrator is rechargeable, and the battery lasts for up to an impressive 5 hours. This vibrator is perfect if you were hoping to use it throughout the day. 

As for how to charge it, this new model is charged with a magnetic charging port for convenient and easy charging. When it’s plugged in, the vibrator will show a dim red light to let you know it’s charging.

A long battery life, easy cleaning, versatile use, unlimited patterns, and powerful vibrations. This vibrator is going to have to get a “Hell yes!” from me. There are very few toys on the market that are as carefully designed and as high quality as the Lush 3 from Lovense.

Lush and Lush 2 were already excellent options. Lovense Lush 3 builds upon these best-selling toys, implements user feedback, and becomes an even better vibrator than the previous two variants. It’s even quieter, even more powerful, and with an even better antenna for an effortless wireless connection. This is what I mean when I say humanity is moving forward!

I personally think that everyone should own a remote-controlled vibrator. There is really no end to the fun, excitement, and new experiences using one can give you. From sexy outings to long-distance sex that actually feels really good, it’s definitely worth the investment. Lovense Lush 3 just so happens to be one of the absolute best options on the market.

The only thing I can point out that isn’t a daydream about the toy would be the price tag, but the price is only reasonable for the high-quality toy you get.

A stable Bluetooth connection and intense vibrations are two critical requirements when buying this type of toy, and Lush 3 gives you both of these things plus way more. The incredible battery life opens up many possibilities for you to wear and use it throughout the day. Who says a day at the office has to be boring?

Check out the Lovense Lush 3